I work online from home, and one of my moderators and I became great friends. She worked for me, and stood out as one of the best workers I’ve ever had.
As we kept talking, we got to know one another very well, and we started to fall in love.
Little-by-little she let me know about her other job. At first she said she worked for the government, and before we could meet I needed to agree to a background check.
I agreed, because I have nothing to hide.
In course of time, the results came back and I was “green light” for meeting.
Plans were made, but they couldn’t happen.
They couldn’t happen because she was having a wipe; which is a mind altering, memory removing procedure related to her role.
She explained to me shortly before this wipe that her role in the gov is more like Bourne — Like from Bourne Identity.
The date of her wipe just happened to occur the same weekend we planned to meet. She told me of the procedure and the risk I may be cleared from her recall.
We were emotional about the possibility that all we had developed and the feelings we had for one another would be lost.
This was hard to believe, but as I had gotten to know her little-by-little I accepted what she said as truth, because I felt she had no reason to lie.
I know there are things unknown to the general public that governments do, and with her use of language, and keeping her story straight, I trusted what she was telling me was true.
That weekend was Thanksgiving 2011. I thought how sad it was I had canceled all other plans for Thanksgiving so I could spend time with my girlfriend. I spent that Thanksgiving alone.
When she came online after the procedure, she demonstrated complete true alignment in character to lead me to believe that she really had been wiped of all memories of me.
She had trigger words that the doctors gave her. These trigger words were created out of hypnotic suggestions to bring memories of things back into recollection. She would lose anything that she just came in contact with, and certain other events from the previous 60 days as they targeted memories containing secrets of experiences they would like to remove from her memory to help her cope and continue forward in her role.
The sheet was comprised of things about her daughter and 2/3 of the sheet was about me. She showed me how important it was for her to remember me, and gave me the trigger phrases to help her recall. When the phrase was used she told me of the sharp pains that accompanied the memory flashes, and with a wave of memories, she became emotional.
We continued to get to know one another, and like before she began feeling feelings for me. I saw this as an incredible proof that who I am is who she really was looking for. She told me of her deep feelings for me too, and included more information about her role as she felt she could “Trust” me.
She and I once again made plans to meet, but she was denied any time off because they were short on back-ups. She explained that with few crew available, she would need to be available for assignments.
As we planned to meet some more, dates were selected– which once again couldn’t happen because she was going away on assignment. She provided very little detail of what she was doing, because of the secretive nature of her role.
Because of her feelings for me, she sent me her tags and made me her primary contact in case of any incident while on assignments.
She gave me all the details from her tags, explained what each part meant, and described how the person will call — asking me to verify additional information depending on how seriously she was injured, or whether she had fallen.
We said our goodbyes online while she prepared to be picked up from her home, and taken to a location where they would fly out to their destination.
She expressed deep feelings, plans for the future, desires, and was quite emotional with the prospect of losing me, or having me lose her through the assignment.
Her friend bubs005 aka Dex was also in communication with me on skype, which helped me feel a more solid feeling that all this was true, especially as he also wanted to say goodbye before leaving.
There’s many details being left out from this mainly because it’s difficult to condense several months into a single message, but with how much we spoke, how often, and how openly we felt comfortable with one another– on cam, voice, and through text chats– I became so grateful for finding someone who I could love, feel like I could be my true self, and feel totally embraced– and beyond that, feel totally and completely able to love someone else, give them my heart and soul, and trust in her.
Her friend bubs fell on one of the next assignments, and she was completely besides herself having lost one of her nearest and dearest friends.
Her ex-boyfriend Steve would be her next partner. They supposedly had quite the past which was compared to the relationship I was having, except it was for years and in person.
I had been receiving notifications on skype from steve144-009 before him transferring to that location. He sent notifications to all primary/secondary contacts relating to things while ops were out in the field.
Now that he was her partner, he was pressing himself on Kasia sexually while out in the field. I had contact also with someone on skype named Chief Biran Wingham (skype: canopschief144)
He said he would take care of it, which included a wipe of both Steve and Kasia of each other’s existence so she could serve out the rest of her contract with him as a partner.. because they didn’t have back-ups to replace him with anyone else.
Through the course of all this time, there had been many plans for us to meet which weren’t possible because of contract, not having back-ups available, because of a wipe that cleared me from memory and required her to feel like she knew me before meeting, and other things relating to her role.
Since she had sent me tags, and I had contact with her superior on skype, other agents such as Steve and Dex .. I felt for sure things were true. Kasia kept herself in perfect character the whole time, and kept her story straight. I truly felt she was authentic, and that our relationship.. the feelings developed were real.
Going through this experience is not easy, because when you place that much trust into someone, and allow yourself to be vulnerable to them.. and see that they are being (apparently) openly honest with you.. it shakes reality to the core of one’s soul.
When she came to the end of her contract Oct 31, 2012.. she and I had already spoken online over 1 year. She and I had plans for meeting, meeting one another’s families, and have more discussion about marriage and other plans moving forward into the future. I wasn’t sure if we’d have anything happen in person, but she was confident that because we had developed such a wonderful connection online on multiple levels of connection that we’d easily and quite wonderfully be able to translate what we have online into the offline world.
She explained that after contract they have a much deeper wipe so they can move forward with their lives as normal people, without all the difficult memories nagging at them — reminding them of all the terrible things they had seen and been a part of. This final wipe was possibly going to clear me from memory again, but I felt confident that if that happened we’d get back together because we had before.
After the wipe, she indeed couldn’t remember me. She asked me to verify who I was based upon knowing her home address and tag info. I confirmed all this info with her, and she spoke with me as often as she could as she was tying down loose ends.
The loose ends she was tying down was collecting information and items from safety deposit boxes around the world that she had stored for her retirement. Her ex-boyfriend Steve was also pressing himself on her, and she was not welcoming to that happening. Steve in this experience was saying that they would either live together or die together. So she had to lead him into a trap, take him out– and then take out anyone who was in place to take her out (meaning kill her) in the event he was to have fallen. She explained that everyone in her line of business has people looking out for them, and that if someone falls there are others who would avenge their death.
So her tying down loose ends continued all through Nov, Dec, and about 1/2 way into Jan 2012. Final targets turned into more final targets as she detected more risks, and more people who would come after her because of the people who she had to deal with. Her goal was for her own safety, of her family, and other loved ones when she came home. She wanted to enjoy the rest of her life with minimal risk of being shot while on vacation with her family, or other things like this.
When I told her how much I missed her, she suggested that we take a break until she was able to meet me. We had planned to meet 1-2 weeks after she returned home from tying down these lose ends.
When she suggested a break… I was confused. I reflected on all that we had experienced and endured together. At first I agreed to a break, but the next day said– wait, I want to be with you through this. After a week of not hearing from her, I sent her a message of break-up. The following day, she said she was on her way home and that it was too bad I had stopped the relationship at that point. She was looking forward to meet.
I quickly told her that I would still very much like that, and seeing that she actually did want to meet, I confirmed that I wanted to, and tried to help her know my message of break-up was because of the flood of emotions caused by her calling for a break.
I spoke with her on the phone after she came home. I sent her cookies to her address as a welcome home gift. I wanted to meet soon, so I kept positive the idea that we would soon meet. She told me that now that she’s home she was dealing with post traumatic stress. She didn’t want me to see her that way. She was jumpy, on guard, and wasn’t feeling like herself.
She was getting therapy setup by Chief Biran Wingham. The therapy was helping her cope with the PTSD, which they felt important because she had taken on another 6 month contract which was to begin within a month from that point. The plan was for her and I to have met before that contract, and have me go to Europe with her.
From what she said, the doctors wanted me to focus on the contract, so they built in blockers in her memory to cause her emotional pain when she spoke with me. They helped her overcome the PTSD with another wipe also– which cleared me out.
So, having been cleared from her memory once again, and any attempt to reconnect causing her pain.. I stepped away. I discontinued contact with her in March 2013.
Months went by, and each day I thought of her. I thought of the love, the deep connection we had developed. When I tried dating other girls locally, all I could think about was her– and the deepest feelings of love I had felt during that time, and my desire to show her the true feelings of love I had felt too.
I got back in contact with her to find out she said she also thought of me. That she also at a time flew out to an Air Force base nearby, and decided to fly back home because the timing wasn’t right. I had broken things off with her, and she didn’t feel comfortable reaching out to me.
We continued contact as often as we could while she was to complete her contract– which was delayed starting because of the therapy and treatments earlier in the year. Her contract supposedly ends Jan 5, 2014. In expressing to her my feelings, I also openly expressed doubt that we would meet. It had been over 2 years since we first started talking, and the reasons we couldn’t meet before sprung at the last moment, and were things I sometimes found it difficult to believe.
Because I told her I found it difficult to believe, she abruptly ended the relationship, and said that maybe Jan 5 she would get in contact with me after her contract– because then there would be nothing to stand in the way of our meeting.
I sent her messages confirming that I have faith, but do find it hard to believe.. and that I was sorry I offended her– I tried to help her understand why it would be difficult to believe considering the circumstances. She told me of her desire to have a man that trusts her, told me she was disappointed in me, and told me maybe when her contract ends she’ll consider contact.
I didn’t want to wait another 2 months to find out another reason we couldn’t meet. I felt there had to be a way to discover sooner whether any of this is real.
I began to think of how much she said she was preparing her whole family and all of her friends to meet me and welcome me into her life. So I reached out to them explaining my feelings for her, and desire to know whether things were true.. so I could give her the trust she was asking for.
I received contact from no one except her brother. He said, “Whatever you think is happening between you and Kasia is not going to end up like you think it will.” He told me to leave her alone, and called me a stalker for having “found” Kasia’s family/friends. He didn’t realize that she had been the one to tell me all about her family and friends, as she also said she had told them all about me.
I thought of the movie “The Vow” and how it’s important to work hard to show someone who can’t remember you how much that relationship means, how much that person means in our lives.
During this point of the contract, Kasia had just told me she was transferred from France to Belgium. Just to test if she was home, I called her home line. She picked up.
To me, her brother’s attitude for me reaching out to family and friends, and Kasia’s being home while she was supposed to be in Europe proves that she had been lying this whole time.
Then, all the doubts flooded forward as I felt like a total fool for believing that she was a secret spy for the Canadian government, that she had memory wipes, and that any of her stories/experiences she shared about her role/assignments/etc were true. Man, what an idiot I have been.
I now feel extremely motivated by purpose to expose her as being a fraud openly to help others who may be seeking to know if she’s really who she says she is.
Developing a relationship online with Kate (Kasia) and not sure this is the same person?
Here’s some info to help you know if the Kasia (Kate) you’re speaking with is the same one.
Lives In Hagersville / Hamilton Ontario Area
Also Says She Has Property In Florida
Halina (Halinka) Boruta
Robert (Bob) R Pilcher
Everything looked and felt authentic. I called the Canadian government agencies.. as many as I possibly could. All confirmed these tags are fake. Kasia’s birthday May 1, 1974 and other details given could not provide any results for military background, or any other affiliation with any of the claimed agencies she worked with.
I setup a facebook page to expose her for the fraud she is also– hoping that no one else would have to go through what I have.